It’s easy to lose our way spiritually, not in one big step, but through small, quiet choices that gradually pull us away from God. It might start with skipping prayer, missing worship, or letting bitterness take root. Over time, we wonder: “How did I get so far from God?”
The good news is, God never stops loving us. No matter how far we drift, His arms remain open. In The Prodigal Journey: Lessons of Grace, Mercy and Redemption, Gima Mathew reminds us that returning to God is what God longs for.
The parable of the Prodigal Son is the perfect guide for those who feel lost. The son who left home made many mistakes. But what matters most is what he did when he realized how far he had fallen. He chose to return. “When he came to his senses,” Scripture says, “he got up and went to his father” (Luke 15:17–20). That one decision changed everything.
Mathew explains, “When we acknowledge our mistakes, humble ourselves, and seek forgiveness without pride, we will find that our heavenly Father is loving and compassionate.” If you’re wondering how to start your journey back to God, here are a few simple but powerful steps drawn from this story and Mathew’s insights.
First, recognize where you are. The prodigal son didn’t justify his behavior. He admitted he was lost. In the same way, take time to be honest with yourself. Are you avoiding God? Are you spiritually dry or distracted? Begin with honest self-reflection.
Second, decide to return. This might seem obvious, but making a conscious decision to turn back is crucial. Don’t wait until you feel “worthy” again. Dr. Mathew reminds us that “God’s mercy is always greater than our sin.” He doesn’t expect perfection, but your willingness to seek Him and His grace.
Third, start small. The son didn’t return with everything figured out. He simply started walking. You can do the same. Perhaps you could open your Bible again. Whisper a prayer. Talk to a trusted believer. Go back to church. These small steps still move you forward and will gradually strengthen your conviction in God.
Fourth, expect grace, not judgment. When the father saw his son from a distance, he ran to him. That’s the nature of God. Dr. Mathew writes, “There was no lecture, condemnation, or mention of past mistakes. Instead, there was pure, unreserved acceptance.” Don’t be afraid of God’s response. His heart is full of mercy. And when you seek Him and His forgiveness, He will always listen to your heart and provide you the strength to lead yourself back to His wisdom.
Lastly, stay near the Father. The younger son learned that life away from his father brought pain. Once restored, he stayed. Coming back to God isn’t just about a moment of repentance. Instead, it is about building a lasting relationship. Keep walking closely with Him.
If you’ve drifted, know this: you are not alone and beyond reach. Like the son in the parable, your return will not be met with scorn, but with celebration.
In light of this, The Prodigal Journey offers not only a beautiful explanation of Scripture but also practical wisdom for returning to God. It’s gentle, honest, and rooted in truth. Whether you’ve wandered a little or a lot, this book will remind you of the Father’s unwavering love and guide your steps back to His heart.
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